Four Crucial Habits To Help A New Disciple Form On Day One

Visualize this scenario: You are at a coffee shop sharing Jesus with a friend. He puts his latte on the table and tells you he wants to turn from his sin and follow Jesus.

Once you’ve cleaned up the mess from the macchiato that just came out of your nose, you talk with him about his decision and you welcome him joyfully into the family!

So here’s the question: What now?

If you were only interested in a notch on your evangelistic belt then you might be tempted to outsource this new disciple’s growth to a church program.

If you don’t have time to make disciples then you might just give your new brother a book and send him on his way.

But, if you are serious about fulfilling the Great Commission by making disciples who make disciples, then you need to be intentional about this moment.

In fact, there are four habits that you need to help your new brother (or sister) form before he (or she) pays for your coffee. (Okay, maybe you should pick up the check this time.)

Research Suggests Accurate Count of Christians Closer to 4% in US

Some troubling research according to Greg Laurie:

  • Only 1 in 20 Christians has ever shared the Gospel.

Let’s combine that with some data from¬†ARIS 2008:

  • US Population¬†= 307,006,550
  • Self-proclaimed Christians in US = 233,324, 978 (or 76%)
  • 1 in 20 US Christians who has ever shared the Gospel = 11,666,249 (or 4%)

What does Jesus have to say about this?

Therefore, everyone who will acknowledge Me before men, I will also acknowledge him before My Father in heaven. But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father in heaven. (Matthew 10:32-33)

One of the definitions of deny is “to refuse to grant a request.” If 19 out of 20 self-proclaimed Christians won’t acknowledge Jesus with their lips and deny his request command to make disciples (Matthew 28:19) and be witnesses (Luke 24:48, Acts 1:8) then what are we to conclude?